I'm the Program
I've been in the program for five years and stop trying to push the program to the people I love, long ago ( I have a sister that does all the time, unsuccessfully) I've learn since that I'm "the book" my family reads. The way I react and behave. I can talk about the program until I'm blue in the face, but if my actions don't match my words, everything I said is meaningless. I'm CoDA, I'm the literature, I'm the steps. Do they like what I do? Do they want what I have? If they ask, I'll share with them. If they don't , it means that my Higher Power is choosing another person or way to help them. I have faith.