Relationships…

When it comes to relationships, I have been guilty of continuing to do
the same thing the same way, and expecting different results. On many
occasions this has resulted in sadness on the part of myself and/or
others.

Fortunately for me, CoDA and the "12 Steps" have become part of my life. As
a result, I have learned to listen to myself, and become aware of my part in
relationships, situations and behaviors that are potentially destructive.
Further, by listening to and sharing with others at CoDA meetings, I have gained
new insights and learned about new options that enable me to make more
appropriate responses to "life's little surprises." With the help of my
Higher Power, I have learned that I can trust myself to make necessary
changes that lead to healthier relationships.

Before CoDA, I felt as if the joy of life and friends were being sucked out
of me, leaving me empty inside. I am truly grateful for CoDA, and its part
in helping me to enjoy both my life and the relationships I am developing.

Harry